Being a parent means variation in your day, every single day. It may feel the same at times: same fights, same whines, same laughs, same messes. It isn’t though. There is always something new. In the last 24 hours, my life at home got a bit interesting with night terrors, snow, and a mole. Quite the combination, right?
The first time Ginny had a nightmare she was around a year old. At least, we thought it was a nightmare. Over the last two and half years, she’s had these nightmares at least once a month; sometimes more often, sometimes less. She always seems to be awake; her eyes open and she’d respond to our questions. Believing these incidents to be nightmares, we would do what we could to comfort her and get her back to sleep.
Last night, an hour after going to sleep, Ginny woke sobbing uncontrollably. Her eyes were open as tears streamed down her face. I tried getting her to come to me, but she didn’t respond so I pulled her to me. It was then that I realized that she wasn’t awake. She wasn’t really seeing me. As I tried to calm her, she told me what was wrong, but nearly every word sounded like gibberish. Then, we moved to where she was sleeping on the floor (yes, my 3-year-old sleeps on the floor…we can’t convince her to sleep in her bed) and laid down together. Within seconds she drifted into a peaceful sleep.
As I looked at her sweet face, I realized that my daughter hasn’t been experiencing nightmares for the last couple years. She’s had night terrors. I don’t know that the knowledge changes anything, but it is something we will bring up with her doctor for her next wellness visit.
You would never know that anything happened last night by Ginny’s face this morning. It was bright and hopeful.
“Mommy!! It’s snowing! Let’s go outside!”
Grace, her younger sister, looked at me, smiled, and said, “Mommy!” It’s the simple things really.
The girls were eating breakfast their dad made for them this morning, some oatmeal. Ginny wasn’t satisfied though. “I’m still hungry. Mommy, I’m really hungry. I need more to eat.” So, as my husband left for work, I toasted up a couple of waffles for my little hobbit so she could have her second breakfast. (Sometimes she has 3 or 4 servings, depending on her mood and how much she didn’t eat the night before.)
Grace finished her oatmeal and wandered off to play with a toy, as I let Ginny know that we would go outside later. Satisfied (with both her breakfast and my assurances), Ginny happily gobbled up her waffles.
For a couple of hours this morning, the girls built tents and played as we watched a few things on Netflix (well, the original plan was to watch Disney, Jr. but the snow on the satellite made it difficult to use DirecTV this morning).
Around 9:30 this morning, I noticed a lull in the snow. Perfect timing! I got up and put on some socks, then busied myself with gathering socks, snow pants, and boots. Then, each girl taking turns, I bundled them up to go outside and made sure to bundle myself.
As we got ready to head out in the snow, Daisy Mae, our energetic and lovable dog, nipped at our heels a bit, in anticipation of going out in the snow. Daisy loves snow! Considering that the dog was born and raised in Florida, I find it remarkable that she fell in love with snow the first time she saw it.
All bundles with coats, hats, and gloves, we headed out to the back yard to play in the snow. I brought with me a long stick (okay, an extended paint roller frame with paint roller on it) so I could knock off the snow sitting on our satellite. While the girls started playing in the snow, I pushed off the snow. Naturally, most of the snow fell on my face as I did so. Once I completed my task, I joined the girls in playing with the snow.
Then, I heard Ginny cry out. She fell. Of course, she fell on her dad’s snow board, a tool he uses to measure the snow. Doing so meant that it knocked off all the snow and any possible measurements he could have gotten on recent snowfall. (Sorry, honey!)
To keep Ginny away from the snow board (because it was too tempting not to play on it), I decided we should work on building a snowman. The snow was nice and wet. Perfect! Ginny helped me as I tried to roll the snow to create the base. Grace just watched and started building her own snowman, I think. I was pleased to see she didn’t mind playing in the snow anymore.
Eventually, snowman made. I ran into the house and grabbed two grapes, one carrot, and red licorice to make the face. While working on the face, I noticed Daisy busy sniffing out an area that had been cleared by rolling snow. I tried to encourage her to move on, convinced she would become a muddy mess if she kept at it. Soon it became clear what had Daisy on the hunt. I looked on the ground near the snowman and Daisy was pawing at something small and dark. I thought it was a mouse, but when I looked at it again, I realized it was a baby mole.
At this point, the girls and I headed back inside, but Daisy refused to come in. She was determined to get the mole. I’m not sure if she did or not. After 30 minutes of chasing the mole, she stood at the back door ready to come in, a muddy, dirty, wet mess.
And now, on to some stuff that happened this past month…
My Writing Around the Web:
10 Thoughts on Compassion I share wonderful quotes on compassion!
Fear, Hope, and a Baby…. I revealed whether I’m pregnant with a girl or a boy.
10 Things This Pregnant Woman Needs What does a pregnant woman need? I tell you!
Doggy Love We love our dog, Daisy!
Finding the Funny with Guest Blogger Denise Geelhart I’m over at Laugh Lines with a funny post!
1000 Voices I invite you to take part in 1000 Voices Speak for Compassion on February 20.
Night Owl My youngest has tortured us with her night owl ways for 18 months now.
Where I Would Shop if I Had $10,000 What stores would you go to? I share my list of 10 stores I would visit, despite my hatred for shopping.
Skin Experiment: Rodan+Fields Review Part I I’m reviewing this skin care line! My first in a three-part series.
Not-to-Miss Articles from Around the Web
I’ve been busy reading lots of blog posts. Here are a few of my favorites that I think you might like as well.
The Wall A poignant piece about how our children grow.
On Isolation and Infertility A powerful post from a woman who has experience loss and infertility.
What Do Stay at Home Moms Do All Day? I love this!! Truth!!